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How to Get What You Want From Men in 3 Easy Steps

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I just found a great article I bet you’ll love.

Randy Bennett is a licensed relationship expert and he’s discovered that women who succeed
with men have a kind of “magic confidence” they use that can literally crack open the heart of
even the most difficult man and get him to treat you better.

He seems to think it works every time – and it makes sense! In this article, he gives you three
specific things you can do to start getting what you want from your man.

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Nate Truman

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Get What You Want and Need

You KNOW what you want from your man.

But he’s let you down so many times that it’s hard to believe he’ll EVER change

Fortunately, I’ve discovered three simple steps that will give you the confidence to start getting
what you want from your man.

Surprisingly, this actually makes you MORE attractive to him in the process!

Step #1: Escape Negative Patterns

Our lives are spent developing patterns of behavior. Some are positive patterns that empower
us. Others are negative patterns that hurt us.

The problem with negative patterns is, we get used to them. We don’t notice them. And even
worse, they often get reinforced by other people in our lives.

For instance, I once worked with a woman named Anne-Marie, who was raised in a deeply
religious family. In her family, “divorce” was an absolutely forbidden subject.

Anne-Marie’s marriage was in a state of crisis, but there was no way Anne-Marie could even
utter the word “divorce” without her family raining down criticism on her. She felt judged,
shamed, and alone.

Now, just because Anne-Marie might think of leaving her husband, that didn’t mean she would
actually do it.

But it was important that she have the confidence of knowing she could walk away if she
wanted to.

That’s the only way she would ever be able to let her husband know she wasn’t going to
tolerate his negative behavior patterns any more. The only way she could regain power over
her relationship.

The only way she could fix things.

You need that same kind of confidence, so you can eliminate negative patterns from your
relationship.

It’s not about you “quitting” the relationship; it’s about you feeling EMPOWERED to make
decisions for yourself…

…decisions that can remove negative behavior from your life — both your own negative
behavior patterns, and his, too.

Step #2: Build Your “Family Of Choice”

To build a strong relationship, you need a strong sense of self, a “steely inner core”.

As we saw with Anne-Marie’s story, you may have a hard time saying what you want and going
for it because you’re being influenced by those around you.

This is when I recommend you consider developing a “family of choice”, which means you
surround yourself with people who actually HELP you to be your strongest self.

They allow you the freedom to make choices that right for YOU.

Step #3: Balance Your Thoughts and Emotions

You may have heard the advice “all things in moderation”. This advice applies to emotions, too.

We all have negative thoughts and emotions. The goal is not to eliminate them completely from
our lives; the goal is to learn to control your response to them.

This way you can break free from the patterns that hold you back from getting what you want.
This takes time and practice.

Right now, you and your man are locked in the “Dance of Dysfunction”. That tends to throw you
both off balance.

But if you can get out of that cycle, and balance your own thoughts and emotions, you will
suddenly discover your “best self”.

Believe me, your man will notice the difference.

A strong, confident you is sexy-and it can act like a magnet on him.

Whatever the outcome of your new efforts, you at least know that you are stepping out into
the world a stronger, more self-assured and self-confident you, and that alone is worth the
effort.

More Tips on How to Get What You Want From Your Man…

Click here for more of my tips and articles…

I wish you the best,

Randall E. Bennett, MA, LMFT, LCPC

P.S. In this article I’ve only been able to scratch the surface on how to get what you want from
your man so you can restore the intimacy, love, and connection.

That’s why I’ve produced a brand new free video explains exactly how you can use these ideas,
and others I have discovered, to literally melt your man’s heart… and get him to treat you like
you’re the only woman in the world he’ll ever want.

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That video reveals the three fastest and easiest ways to “melt your man’s heart” and the 3
relationship lies (taught by so-called experts) you absolutely must avoid to have any chance at
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I am not sure how long this video will up – and to be honest, I can’t believe I am making all of
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